While this isn’t the first time I have run into this issue, my recent posts about Twitter Etiquette has helped me realize the importance of constructive commenting.
Comments like “First!”, “Bite me”, “You suck”, as well as other mindless garbage should not be posted in a blog or social news websites comments. These comments have nothing to do with the posting and are not only rude, but do nothing to further the conversation. If you are going to waste your time on the internet do something other than waste peoples space and bandwidth.
I’m not saying you have to agree with everything somebody posts, but if you have an opposing view, state it and the thought process behind it. Saying something like “You are wrong” does nothing to further the conversation. Offer constructive criticism! The internet is about the free sharing of ideas, not the flaming of other people simply because you do not understand or believe in what they say. Here are a few tips for leaving constructive comments.
- Ask the author to clarify what he says. If you are unsure of what the post author is trying to say or can’t see how they made the leap from observation to conclusion, ask them to explain it better. Just because you don’t understand somebody’s point, does not mean its not a valid point. Feel free to ask as many questions as is needed so that you can understand the issue and be able to provide some constructive thought about the topic.
- If you are an expert on the topic, speak up! If you happen to be an expert on a particular topic and believe that the author or other commenter’s don’t understand what they are talking about or have some details wrong, jump in and share your knowledge. Don’t simply say “These people are idiots” and continue on your way. Help inform them so they can speak intelligently about the topic in the future. Doing this will not only impress the readers with your knowledge, but it will spur a more informed conversation.
- Post links to related content. If you know a great source of more information on the topic, feel free to post the link. Anybody concerned with the post will be very happy to learn more about the topic. Often blogs aren’t long enough to go in great detail of a topic, so posting links that will give other readers more detail is often greatly appreciated as it saves people the time they would use to search for more information on the topic.
- Post polite comments. The old adage of if you have nothing nice to say, don’t say it at all, can easily apply to blog or social news posts. While I am not saying you should not speak negatively about the post if it warrants it, it is not necessary to flame the user with obscenities and directions to where he can go. Keep in mind that when you say something on the internet, it won’t go away and can easily come back to haunt you in the future. What you say and how you say it affects your reliability and reputation. While a post like “Nice job” isn’t the most constructive post, it is at least more respectable than “You suck”.
- Offer alternative ideas. Many topics are not black and white and won’t have a single answer of solution. If you or somebody you know has an alternative idea, share it! Progress is achieved through the concept of idea sharing, not keeping your opinion to yourself. Sometimes an alternate idea is better than the original idea, so share your thoughts on the subject.
- Suggest improvements. If somebody is posting about some kind of project they have in the works, suggest improvements for any areas you see that could be improved upon. Similar to the alternative ideas point, if you have an idea that could be more efficient than they way they are currently doing something, suggest it! If they don’t want to listen to you, that is their choice, but at least suggest improvements. Often you will be thanked for your input.
- Be original! While you may agree with other commenter’s viewpoints, don’t just repeat what they have said. Thinking for yourself and having your own, unique opinion is embraced on the internet. Expand on what others have said or state why you don’t subscribe to their entire thought. It is not necessary to be correct, just original.
Following these guidelines will help you become a valued commenter on any blog or social news outlet. Remember, on the internet knowledge is valued and trolls are despised. Most importantly, respect the opinions of others if you want others to respect yours.
-Jeremy “pcnerd37″ Bray
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12:34 pm - March 19th, 2008
Constructive comments are written for constructive posts.
Asinine posts deserve asinine comments.
Or, if you prefer: “First!”, “Bite me”, and “You suck”
9:30 am - March 20th, 2008
First post!
Ah fuck nuts, Steven Fisher beat me to it. Steven you can bite me you nimrod.
Oh and Jeremy, on the internet knowledge is only valued by the very, very few. The rest are trying to feed their egos. Your trying to teach twitter and comment etiquette to the internet is like trying to teach a baby to eat with chopsticks. You’ll only get frustrated and the baby will most likely poke it’s eye out.
9:36 am - March 20th, 2008
Jeremy:
1. Please clarify. “Comments like “First!”, “Bite me”, “You suck”, as well as other mindless garbage should not be posted in a blog or social news websites comments. These comments have nothing to do with the posting and are not only rude, but do nothing to further the conversation.” Do you mean to imply that the Web is some kind of classroom, where only comments directly relevant to the material at hand are to be tolerated? Clarify further: Are you really a blockhead, or simply willfully ignorant?
2. As a network bulletin board user and operator since the days of dialup (WWIVnet 4evah, bitchez!), I’m an expert on the issue of commenting. In my expert opinion, you’re a priggish nanny with too much time on his hands.
3. A link relevant to this topic: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flamebait
4. A polite comment: Jeremy, sir, I find your continued preachy posting to be the verbal equivalent of a boil upon my arse. Please sir, sit and enjoy a hot cup of STFU.
5. An alternative idea: Go back to posting irrelevant commentary about the how HD-DVD isn’t really dead, and asking your imaginary readers “what’s on [their] desktop?” Stop trying to play wet nurse to the Intertubes.
6. Suggestions for improvement: Get rid of your lame design, take the word “geek” out of your title, pick a less hubristic name for your blog, develop an editorial voice and some actual expertise. Post interesting material, instead of simply passing whatever farts happen to whiff through your personal smell test. I could go on, but why bother? That’d be enough to keep you busy until Christmas. Of roughly 2012.
7. As for originality, the irony of this suggestion coming from someone doing a bad cover of Judith Martin is simply beyond description.
Sit down, Jeremy, and shut up, please. At the very least, go back to the inoffensive blandness you were guilty of previously. That, at least, doesn’t suffer the sin of projecting your personal obtuseness onto the entire rest of the Internet.
2:45 pm - March 20th, 2008
This was better than the twitter etiquette post. Which isn’t saying much, because I found that post completely useless. This one at least has a grasp on what blog comments are used for.
But for the most part, this can be filed under “stating the obvious,” or alternatively, “won’t change anyone’s habits”.
Everyone thinks that their posts are relevant and add to a conversation. That is save for trolls, who are only out for their own self amusement, and will not change their ways.
4:39 pm - July 21st, 2008
This is a great post Jeremy! I hope that Shawn isn’t right about filing this under “won’t change anyone’s habits.” I feel like if we talk about it then it raises awareness. If we just let it go and accept it as typical, like we have been, then it fuels the fire and elevates.
9:25 am - October 21st, 2008
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